If you want professional support (in the areas I offer and this does not include any legal advice), then we can make an appointment. If you wish professional support for your decision-making, communication, or because you suffer emotionally from narcissists, then we can arrange an appointment.Īs much as I would like to - with the large number of requests I receive, I keep the amount of volunteer help at a feasible level. Either you come to me in Berlin or we organize a telephone meeting or use the Internet with a video conferencing system. Typically, a telephone call of 60 minutes is enough. In any case, you can orient yourself by reading the list with fees. It's urgent? Thanks to an immediate bank transfer, it is also possible to organize sessions at short notice, often even on the same day. Help dealing with narcissists (no legal advice!)
NARCISSIST COMPULSIVE LIAR HOW TO
Find out how to recognize narcissists and how to protect yourself. The sooner you recognize the deceitful game, the better. Hindsight is unlikely, and they often fight exposure with all their might. When asked about lies, further lies are to be expected from narcissists.
Chances are that lies about you will then follow once you see through the game and want to leave. They lie about their feelings for you to quickly win you over and keep you loyal. They start by lying about themselves, then move on to lying about their ex, their career, and their accomplishments. They are manipulative, deceitful, and unscrupulous to alienate their victims and influence observers. Narcissists can be very cunning, sly, and resourceful in inventing lies. In this way, they want to gain advantages and distract from their mean behavior. More often, they suffer at the hands of supposedly mean and even crazy people, such as ex-partners, former victims. Common attempts at manipulation include faked illnesses and injuries, car accidents, and thefts. Furthermore, they use deception, sometimes a spark of truth, to create a plethora of fabricated problems. They exploit the natural desire of many people to help their fellow man. Narcissists also lie to make others feel sorry for them. Empathy is a means to an end, otherwise just dead weight. It is normal for them to deny lies, make excuses, and project their behavior onto others. In doing so, they do not make a face, even when confronted with probing questions and evidence of previous deceptions. Narcissists can look people straight in the eye while shamelessly lying to them. This coldness of feeling also allows them to lie with minimal inhibitions. They are insensitive and bored, lack the willingness to show empathy for others, and feel neither shame nor remorse. Narcissists lie effortlessly and are very convincing because they lack normal human emotions or inhibitions. Lack of ability or willingness to empathize In doing so, they have little to no inhibitions. They often frequently claim that they value and even love their targets. They lie as a form of gaslighting to extend their control over targets by making them constantly question and doubt themselves. Narcissists also lie by withholding and selecting information. Once the targets are taken in, narcissists continue to cleverly weave lies with a dash of truth to ensure that their targets continue to play by their rules. They get involved in the relationship without realizing the danger that lurks.
Narcissists know what to do to make their victims lose the ability to make safe and appropriate decisions. Whether professionally, in business, privately those who take the bait usually realize too late what the consequences are. Lies enable narcissists to present a false image of themselves to potential victims. Narcissists consider other people as objects – as a means to an end – and feel entitled to exploit them. For simplification, I call people with clearly narcissistic tendencies – whether women or men – narcissists in this article. What is this all about?Īttention: This article is not about the diagnosis of pathological narcissists, but about avoiding nasty people and not being exploited. They seem to believe their lies, even not to consider them as such. To achieve their goals, they have no restraint when it comes to lying. Where there is no fault to be found, they stage it.
To make themselves look even better, they devalue other people, make them look bad. They, therefore, invent stories to make themselves look great. Their urge for attention and admiration is very strong and out of control. Narcissists want to compensate for their low self-esteem by exaggerated self-portrayals. Why do so many narcissists lie so brazenly?
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